10 rules of the Buddhist, which should be taken over by us
Happiness is in you
Why are we always waiting for X hours? That will be my new job, buy yourself a fur coat. A fur coat will appear - I will go to the restaurant with my friends. I will go to the restaurant - to meet a decent man. Meeting a man - I will find love and happiness. And so on to infinity ... Who told you that it would be like that? Why did you decide to seek happiness on the side? Is someone else interested in your comfort and harmony more than you? No and no again. Only you can make yourself as happy as you feel the need. All the tools are inside you, not in the surrounding space, and those people who are bustling day after day in your life. Take a moment, or rather, highlight an entire hour of communication with yourself and look into the very depths of yourself.Find all your resources, all the pros and lift this powerful layer to the surface. This is true happiness. You have you. The most expensive thing in the world.
Learn to thank
Almost always, having received what we want, we forget to reply with gratitude in response. But when they thought about the secret or prayed about the unbearable, they promised to give their thanks to the end of their days, praise God and believe in their conduct. But ... forgot. What to do in any case impossible. Everything that happens to us in life, whether it is bad or good, has its price.
Every event comes for something. Good brings joy, bad teaches acceptance and patience. But if with pleasant moments that meet you on the path of life, everything is more or less clear, then the question of why trouble always happens is on the agenda always and at all. And all because we step over these lessons and don’t take out any worldly wisdom from them, and after a certain time we step on the same rake. It would be more correct to thank fate for the fact that this event came into your life, and try to find the point from which it sprouted in order not to return there anymore. Everything is very simple.
Holiday every day
Any success, luck, and even seemingly luck is actually a lot of work, and yours, and higher powers. DO NOT take this for granted. Every victory, even if it seems insignificant and insignificant compared to others, should be celebrated. It should be proud of, it should be shared, and then you will always achieve your goals and get what you want. Your energy of joy and strength will attract even more successful coincidences of circumstances into your space. This rule really works. Do not hold back your emotions when you hear a compliment, win the lottery or receive a small gift. Sincerely rejoice that such wonderful moments occur in your life, and there will be many times more.
No matter how much we want one person to pass by, and another to linger longer in our life, everything is predetermined in advance. Every random stranger has his own mission in our destiny. Some come to teach us to rejoice, others - to cry.
People are not to blame for those feelings and emotions that we experience throughout our life, but events associated with them.They are for us, just as we are for them or other people, just guides, teachers, helpers, but by no means managers. Here is an example. Unpleasant, but visual. A friend complains that the same men come across to her. The first favorite preferred her company of friends, the second spends time gathering with friends than in the family, and, most likely, the next will be the same. What is it about? A woman from time to time teaches the same lesson, but can not pass the exam. To break out of this vicious circle, it needs to work on itself and understand that the Universe wants to convey such clues to it. So do not complain about fate and do not swear at men, start with yourself.
Faith is half the success
This rule is somewhat reminiscent of the following sentence: from each according to his needs, to each according to his capabilities. And if you suddenly think that your neighbor has a chocolate life, and you have a whole basket of problems, then the point is only that the neighbor would not have informed him, but you can handle it all. And if suddenly it seems to you that the forces are running out, do not be afraid that you cannot cope, there is always a support behind you, thanks to which you can relax and rest for a second. The main thing - do not lose faith.
Live in joy
“Stop crying, it's not worth your tears,” - in one voice mom and girlfriends say about your crumpled paper shawl. And you continue to get upset because of the next reprimand of the chief and be killed because of parting with your beloved. Not worth it. The behavior of other people is a reflection of their internal state, and by no means you. Happy people will not hurt anyone. They live in joy. And only those who are experiencing dissatisfaction with life, experiencing internal insecurity, are able to do evil and provoke trouble. Pity them and wish good luck.
The best doctor - nature
You can not be fed from food and people as much as you can from nature. Make it a rule to walk in solitude through a forest or a park, to meditate on a green meadow under the chirping of birds or on the seashore to the sounds of the surf. You can gain energy and restore your spiritual strength easily and without financial investments, just by touching your forehead to the trunkyour donor tree. 10 minutes - and you are ready to conquer new heights again.
Accept and heal
It happens that the treatment is delayed only because we are not ready to accept the situation with all its zamorochkami.So with the people that are present in our lives, and with ourselves. You will not be able to love yourself without accepting all the minuses and advantages, no matter how painful it is. This algorithm works with all the unpleasant situations that occur in your life. Awareness of the problem is half the solution.
Make a mistake
Do not try to be perfect. Do not be afraid to stumble. Everyone has the right to make mistakes. After all, this is a step of growth. As soon as you allow yourself to make mistakes, you will more often agree on prospects and less likely to worry about the result, which means that your energy will flow calmly and freely, and not be dispensed in portions.
Look at yourself
We love to criticize others. Stop and pay attention to what is unpleasant for you in this person. What annoys you and infuriates you? Who does this person remind you of? Surprised? Yes, yes, it is you. This law works at 100%. What appeals to us in others, we like in us, but what distresses us is an indicator of what we need to pay attention to in ourselves. So it turns out that the world helps us work on ourselves.